Don't worry, you can make things better and say sorry to your partner in a sincere way that will help heal the situation. Here's some tips for it :
- Give them some space
Sometimes people need some time alone to "mad". It's hard to do, especially when you're anxious to make things better, but try to chill out and give both of you a chance to let some anger go. wait until they are ready to talk and the chances for them to accepting your apology are much greater.
- Let them vent
Maybe you have give them some space, but when you try talking with them, they just blow up and start yelling again. Ought to know, it's human nature when someone is yelling at you, you get defensive and maybe even yell back. Resist that urge, force yourself to listen what they said even it's unreasonable or not true. Arguing will only put fuel on the fire, try to agree with everything they say. You'll find out how quickly they calm down, and maybe even apologize to you for some things they said while angry. ( Note : words that said in anger, is not always the true feelings )
- Be sincere
Are you really mean when you say sorry ? Put yourself in their shoes and ask how you would feel if the role were reversed. Put your ego aside and be humble. Apologizing can be a humble experience. A true, sincere apology is the sign of a mature person.
- Not working ?
How if you've tried all yet still getting nowhere ? Is the relationship you're in is in a serious trouble of being over for good ? If that's the case and you're serious about saving the relationship, then you need to have a more long-term plan. You can't under any circumstances become pushy or needy in any way. They will only withdraw more if they feel pushed. Do not argue, tell and convince them how you will change in the future. Remember, mean your words when you say them. Time heals and some people need more time than others.
Tips taken from : bookofdistraction.blogspot.com
