woman's word

I came across this while surfing the internet, and i find it quite true (and laughable) !

Woman are often misunderstood by men. That's why men should know the words used by woman to warn them about arguments they can avoid if they remember this.

Here are the top 8 words woman often use :


1. " Fine "


This is the word woman use to end argument when she is right and you need to shut up !


2. " Five Minutes "


If she is getting dressed or get ready, this means a half an hour ( doesn't it the same term with men " I'll be back in 5 minutes ? :p ). AND five minutes for her is only five minutes if you have given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.


3. " Nothing "


This is the sign of Calm Before The Storm. You need to be alert, this means something and you should get ready for any consequences you might face. Arguments that begin with " Nothing " usually end in " Fine " (refer to 1) 


4. " Go Ahead "


This is a dare, not permission. Don't do it, if you still love your life.


5. " Loud Sigh "


This is actually a word, but a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means " she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing " ( Refer back to 3 for the meaning of nothing )


6. " That's Okay "


This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. " Whatever "

This is a woman's way of saying "F"you

8. "Don't worry about it, I've got it "

Another dangerous statement, meaning you knew it had to be done but you were lazy to do it and had to wait till i come home to do it. Men should automatically know it has to be done, also this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking " What's wrong ? " For the woman's response, please refer to 3

by Mary Michelle Payumo

Beautiful Heartbreak

Beautiful Heartbreak by Hilary Weeks from Every Step album

I had it all mapped out in front of me, 
Knew just where I wanted to go
But life decided to change my plans, 
And I found a mountain in the middle of my road. 

I knew there was no way over it, 
So I searched for a way around
Brokenhearted I started climbin', 
And at the top I found

Every fear, every doubt, 
All the pain I went through
Was the price that I paid to see this view
And now that I'm here I would never trade

The grace that I feel, 
And the faith that I find
Through the bitter-sweet tears, 
And the sleepless nights

I used to pray he'd take it all away, 
But instead it became a beautiful heartbreak. 

I never dreamed my heart would make it, 
I thought about turning around
But heaven has shown me miracles, 
I never would have seen from the ground. 

Now I take the rain with the sunshine, 
Cause there's one thing that I know
He picks up the pieces, 
Along each broken road. 

Every fear, every doubt, 
All the pain I went through
Was the price that I paid to see this view
And now that I'm here I would never trade

The grace that I feel, 
And the faith that I find
Through the bitter-sweet tears, 
And the sleepless nights. 

I used to pray he'd take it all away, 
But instead it became a beautiful heartbreak. 
I would never trade

The grace that I feel, 
And the faith that I find
Through the bitter-sweet tears, 
And the sleepless nights. 

I used to pray he'd take it all away, 
But instead it became a beautiful heartbreak.

" I'm sorry " tips

Quarrel is a common thing that every partner will go through in relation process. Perhaps there's some misunderstanding or you just messed everything up. Now, they're mad and don't want to talk to you.

Don't worry, you can make things better and say sorry to your partner in a sincere way that will help heal the situation. Here's some tips for it :

- Give them some space

  Sometimes people need some time alone to "mad". It's hard to do, especially when you're anxious to make things better, but try to chill out and give both of you a chance to let some anger go. wait until they are ready to talk and the chances for them to accepting your apology are much greater.

- Let them vent

  Maybe you have give them some space, but when you try talking with them, they just blow up and start yelling again. Ought to know, it's human nature when someone is yelling at you, you get defensive and maybe even yell back. Resist that urge, force yourself to listen what they said even it's unreasonable or not true. Arguing will only put fuel on the fire, try to agree with everything they say. You'll find out how quickly they calm down, and maybe even apologize to you for some things they said while angry. ( Note : words that said in anger, is not always the true feelings )

- Be sincere

  Are you really mean when you say sorry ? Put yourself in their shoes and ask how you would feel if the role were reversed. Put your ego aside and be humble. Apologizing can be a humble experience. A true, sincere apology is the sign of a mature person.

- Not working ?

  How if you've tried all yet still getting nowhere ? Is the relationship you're in is in a serious trouble of being over for good ? If that's the case and you're serious about saving the relationship, then you need to have a more long-term plan. You can't under any circumstances become pushy or needy in any way. They will only withdraw more if they feel pushed. Do not argue, tell and convince them how you will change in the future. Remember, mean your words when you say them. Time heals and some people need more time than others.

Tips taken from : bookofdistraction.blogspot.com

Hi

H-i

H-ave you missed me today ?
I- miss you everyday

Girls wish

- every lyrics, quote, movies always remind us of you
- when we send you some random lyrics, its our unspoken words
- we stay up all night long waiting for you get online with a hope to talk to you even only a while
- every goodbye hurts even we know we'll meet you again tomorrow
- we love to see your smile even we're not the reason for your smile
- how many tears and pains we bear to understand you
- we also a human being who have feelings, don't treat us as a toy that you can play and throw when you get bored
- once we say " i love you " we really meant it, even we rarely say it
- treat us with respect, as we treat you the same way
- for us hugs mean a lot more than kisses
- perhaps we keep asking you about single little things, it's because we worry about you
- lend us your shoulder to lean when we're sad
- kindly wipe our tears with your gentle hands, hug us and tell us "everything will be alright"
- listen to our problems, even you may not find a solution. we just need someone, there, listen to us. it will mean more than enough
- don't ignore us, cause it really break our hearts
- we love the way you give us forehead kiss and whisper goodnight
- we love wear your shirts / jackets, because there left your smell and we feel protected
- we love how you pat our hair
- we love when warp your arm around to shelter us from rain
- ask whether how our day today, sleep well, be careful and other small cares mean a lot to us
- when we're out with your friends, treat us the same way when only both of us
- welcome us back with a tight hug and ask how the holiday was
- love the way you tell silly jokes and draw a smile in my face
- we always smile whenever we saw your name pop up in our phone screen
- we find it adorable when you suddenly write us a small note
- we love how we fall asleep in your shoulder
- when you smile to us, it may mean small thing to you but it means the world for us
- we like when you tell us what you're thinking and ask us for some advice
- we love you with all our hearts

If you ask : Do I care ? I do
Do I love you ? I do
But, if you ask: Will I stay ? It depends on you


If I tell you I love you, can I keep you forever ?
If I tell you I miss you, can we always be together ?

all bout Hibari !

Jajjangg ~ see the good looking and cool guys above ? ohoho ~

i'm sooooo in lovey dovey mood with him *loool*

some anime post nvm oh ?

wait, a little introduction of him first :P

Kanji Name	雲雀 恭弥
Romaji Name	Hibari Kyōya
Title	10th Vongola Cloud Guardian Namimori Disciplinary Committee Head
Gender	Male
Age	16, 26 in the Future Arc.
Status	Alive
Date of Birth	May 5
Famiglia	Vongola Famiglia
Team	Namimori Middle Discipline Committee Vongola Decimo & Guardians Foundation
Weapons	Cloud Tonfas Alaude's Handcuffs
Box Animal	Roll (Version Vongola Box)
Flame	Cloud, Mist
Height	169 cm
Weight	58 kg

Kyoya Hibari (雲雀 恭弥, Hibari Kyōya) is Vongola Family Cloud Guardian and the leader of the Namimori Middle Discipline Committee, a group of delinquents who are all loyal to Hibari. He is a violent delinquent who uses his status to harass other students. As shown several times in the series, he prefers to be alone and cares little for his subordinates. He loves Namimori more than anything and will often say "I'll bite you to death," or "kamikorosu," to those that disturb Namimori Middle School. Hibari is very proud of his school and is apparently the only person who likes their school's anthem, even using it as his ringtone. In the Kokuyo Arc, he adopted Kokuyo Assassin Birds' bird. The bird (subsequently nicknamed "Hibird" due to its connection to Hibari) becomes attached to Hibari. Hibird can also sing the school's anthem as Hibari loves it. Reborn piqued Hibari's curiosity early on in the series, and Hibari considers him a worthy opponent, having a strong urge to fight him. He has a soft spot for small animals, and hates to be indebted to anyone and therefore strives to pay them back as soon as possible.

How's ? even he's that cool, he still have a kawaii side of him (can be seen by having hibird with him)

I can't stop thinking about him, he make me feels like *dokidoki* XDD

sooo i spend some time to browse for his photo (for self-calming) and here are they ! :P

hibari with lotss of hibird

*ugh*

oh and and, i also find some his photo with Yamamoto Takeshi, Vongola Rain Guardian

They look so sweeettt ! XDD

i guess only yamamoto can deal with hibari

awww ! *doki-doki-doki*

nahh, back to reality *slapslap*

until here then, gonna back to study thennn continue to watch Kateikyosi Hitman Reborn *kekeke*

Jia na ~ see you

Character Outline taken from : reborn.wikia.com

Photo taken from : enrique1698.blogspot.com

Chris Medina - What Are Words

Here a single from Chris Medina - What are words

Really a touching lyrics ;')

Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
Anytime you whisper my name, you'll see
How every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most
What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone
And I know an angel was sent just for me
And I know I'm meant to be where I am
And I'm gonna be
Standing right beside her tonight
And I'm gonna be by your side
I would never leave when she needs me most
What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone
Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
And I'm gonna be here forever more
Every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most
I'm forever keeping my angel close

be grateful

Mungkin anda pernah merasa bahwa hidup ini tidak seperti yang anda harapkan, tidak adil

sesuatu yang begitu ingin anda dapatkan tidak didapati

merengek, marah, atas semua hal yang tidak berjalan sesuai keinginan anda

pekerjaan yang membosankan, rekan kerja / pimpinan kerja yang mengesalkan.

Namun, sadarkah anda bahwa anda telah sangat beruntung dapat makan 3x sehari, hidup dengan layak, memiliki tempat tinggal untuk berteduh dari panas dan hujan, baju yang pantas, tempat tidur yang empuk untuk beristirahat, pekerjaan yang layak.

Lihatlah dunia luar, begitu banyak orang yang masih hidup tidak berkecukupan.

dibandingkan mereka, bukan kah anda harus belajar bersyukur atas apa yang anda dapati, bukan malah marah atau merengek atas hal" atau barang yang tidak anda dapati.

 

Seperti kata pepatah, " belajar menghargai adalah awal dari kehidupan "

Hargailah, bersyukurlah, atas apa yang anda dapati sekarang.

sebelum anda berpikir buruk tentang hidup anda, luangkanlah beberapa saat untuk berpikir bahwa banyak orang yang lebih menderita dari anda

" I used to complain i don't have shoes to wear, but then one day I met someone who have no leg "

" I used to complain i have annoying parents, but then one day I met someone who's orphan "

" I used to complain i don't have beautiful shirt to wear, but then one day I met someone who only have one torn shirt "

Be grateful of all you have in your life ^^


Photo taken from : www.pics-site.com

Girls's feeling

Girls ! Fall in Love With Yourself

Feels like full of flaws, nothing good in your self ?

oh girls, you can be more than you ever thought !

all girls are fabulous and gorgeous in their own way.

AND most important thing in girls not always about looks, it’s your thinking.

Your happiness, appearance and relationships all hinge on how you perceive, present, and LOVE -- yourself 

Here some tips, lets whip your self-confidence into shape :

Tell Your Inner Nag to Shut Up!

Stop being so hard on yourself, would you? Thinking you’re fat or stupid or not good enough for some guy is the reality as long as you’re believing it.

Try this: When you catch yourself listening to negative self-talk, stop. Picture something you adore about your life, your looks or your little quirks. Like the cool bond you have with your sis or how that blue dress looks so much better on you than it does on the hanger. Smile. Say cheese. 

Believe in Your Own Greatness

Maybe you feel other girls are so much smarter, prettier, cooler.…Well, we can’t argue with the fact that there are a lot of great gals out there. But guess what: You’re one of ’em! 

Try this: Being your total self is about rolling all the best parts of you into one impressive presentation. Instead of wishing you were a clone of someone else, take a look at everyone around you. Realize that you have just as many good qualities as the girl sitting next to you. It’s just that each of you has a unique blueprint. Rock yours! 

Give Ugly the Day off

Everyone has that friend who obsesses over her looks. She can’t pass a shop window without stopping to adjust her shirt, inspect her lips, tuck a lock of hair. She picks on each last detail, and then she scoffs: “I look horrible!” Meanwhile, she’s cute as can be. Um, pardon, is that friend…you? 

  

Try this: Do a single glance in the morning, then totally avoid mirrors and windows (no looking into shiny spoons either! That's vain!). Break free of the focus on your physical appearance so you can look within. Are you getting good marks, feeling fit and hanging out with the right people? No mirrors! To pump up your self-esteem, it’s time for inner reflection.

Remember girls, always have self-confidence and LOVE yourself

Like brunomars said : " Cause You're Amazing Just The Way Your Are " ;)

Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you.  ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy. ~ Anonymous

 Tips quoted from : girlworlddaily.com