woman's word

I came across this while surfing the internet, and i find it quite true (and laughable) !

Woman are often misunderstood by men. That's why men should know the words used by woman to warn them about arguments they can avoid if they remember this.

Here are the top 8 words woman often use :


1. " Fine "


This is the word woman use to end argument when she is right and you need to shut up !


2. " Five Minutes "


If she is getting dressed or get ready, this means a half an hour ( doesn't it the same term with men " I'll be back in 5 minutes ? :p ). AND five minutes for her is only five minutes if you have given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.


3. " Nothing "


This is the sign of Calm Before The Storm. You need to be alert, this means something and you should get ready for any consequences you might face. Arguments that begin with " Nothing " usually end in " Fine " (refer to 1) 


4. " Go Ahead "


This is a dare, not permission. Don't do it, if you still love your life.


5. " Loud Sigh "


This is actually a word, but a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means " she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing " ( Refer back to 3 for the meaning of nothing )


6. " That's Okay "


This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. " Whatever "

This is a woman's way of saying "F"you

8. "Don't worry about it, I've got it "

Another dangerous statement, meaning you knew it had to be done but you were lazy to do it and had to wait till i come home to do it. Men should automatically know it has to be done, also this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking " What's wrong ? " For the woman's response, please refer to 3

by Mary Michelle Payumo

Beautiful Heartbreak

Beautiful Heartbreak by Hilary Weeks from Every Step album

I had it all mapped out in front of me, 
Knew just where I wanted to go
But life decided to change my plans, 
And I found a mountain in the middle of my road. 

I knew there was no way over it, 
So I searched for a way around
Brokenhearted I started climbin', 
And at the top I found

Every fear, every doubt, 
All the pain I went through
Was the price that I paid to see this view
And now that I'm here I would never trade

The grace that I feel, 
And the faith that I find
Through the bitter-sweet tears, 
And the sleepless nights

I used to pray he'd take it all away, 
But instead it became a beautiful heartbreak. 

I never dreamed my heart would make it, 
I thought about turning around
But heaven has shown me miracles, 
I never would have seen from the ground. 

Now I take the rain with the sunshine, 
Cause there's one thing that I know
He picks up the pieces, 
Along each broken road. 

Every fear, every doubt, 
All the pain I went through
Was the price that I paid to see this view
And now that I'm here I would never trade

The grace that I feel, 
And the faith that I find
Through the bitter-sweet tears, 
And the sleepless nights. 

I used to pray he'd take it all away, 
But instead it became a beautiful heartbreak. 
I would never trade

The grace that I feel, 
And the faith that I find
Through the bitter-sweet tears, 
And the sleepless nights. 

I used to pray he'd take it all away, 
But instead it became a beautiful heartbreak.

" I'm sorry " tips

Quarrel is a common thing that every partner will go through in relation process. Perhaps there's some misunderstanding or you just messed everything up. Now, they're mad and don't want to talk to you.

Don't worry, you can make things better and say sorry to your partner in a sincere way that will help heal the situation. Here's some tips for it :

- Give them some space

  Sometimes people need some time alone to "mad". It's hard to do, especially when you're anxious to make things better, but try to chill out and give both of you a chance to let some anger go. wait until they are ready to talk and the chances for them to accepting your apology are much greater.

- Let them vent

  Maybe you have give them some space, but when you try talking with them, they just blow up and start yelling again. Ought to know, it's human nature when someone is yelling at you, you get defensive and maybe even yell back. Resist that urge, force yourself to listen what they said even it's unreasonable or not true. Arguing will only put fuel on the fire, try to agree with everything they say. You'll find out how quickly they calm down, and maybe even apologize to you for some things they said while angry. ( Note : words that said in anger, is not always the true feelings )

- Be sincere

  Are you really mean when you say sorry ? Put yourself in their shoes and ask how you would feel if the role were reversed. Put your ego aside and be humble. Apologizing can be a humble experience. A true, sincere apology is the sign of a mature person.

- Not working ?

  How if you've tried all yet still getting nowhere ? Is the relationship you're in is in a serious trouble of being over for good ? If that's the case and you're serious about saving the relationship, then you need to have a more long-term plan. You can't under any circumstances become pushy or needy in any way. They will only withdraw more if they feel pushed. Do not argue, tell and convince them how you will change in the future. Remember, mean your words when you say them. Time heals and some people need more time than others.

Tips taken from : bookofdistraction.blogspot.com